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ESFJ’s radiate warmth and fellowship, placing a high value on harmony, tradition and loyalty.
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Overview
ESFJ: Guardian: Facilitator
- E Energized by the external world.
- S Focuses on facts and reality.
- F Makes decisions based on personal values.
- J Wants things settled and decided.
Relatable Quotes
"Get to know each other, listen to each other and improve our knowledge of the world."
– Pope Francis
"Leadership is all about human connections. It's all about conveying to the followers that you believe in them ... and that we are all in this together."
– Secretary of State Colin Powell
"[Life is] all about connecting with other human beings."
– Hugh Jackman
"My guiding principles in life are to be honest, genuine, thoughtful and caring."
– Prince William
Recommended Matches
ESFJ, ESTJ, ISFJ, ESFP, ISTJ, INFJ
A True ESFJ
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You're a ‘people-person’ who radiates warmth and fellowship, placing a high value on harmony, tradition and loyalty.
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You pay close attention to people's needs and desires and are at your best when organizing others to complete tasks in a timely and accurate way.
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You follow through on your commitments and prefer structure and closure and situations where care and compassion are shown.
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You know it's important to give as well as receive and you often donate your services as a volunteer.
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You have an easier time than most others in making friends and accepting their roles in life, rather than being judgmental.
- You respect rules and authority and take the parent, spouse, employee or whatever role you have very seriously...you learn and operate best in a situation where you know what you can expect.
Relationships
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Love means warmth and commitment and you show this to your partner in many tangible ways...like cards and gifts and flowers and so on. Once you're committed, you stay in it even if it's an inconvenience to you -and maybe even longer than is healthy.
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Because you give so easily in a relationship, you're often disappointed if others don't give as freely as you do. You're more loyal to the institution of the relationship or marriage than the person. When burned in a relationship, you feel hurt badly, because you usually gave it your all, and may need considerable time to heal and get over it before moving on.
Recommendations
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You tend to avoid conflict and sweep problems under the rug; learn how to manage conflict and appreciate that conflict can help people in relationships to understand each other better.
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Value your own priorities more and don't always put others' needs ahead of your own.
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Ask others if they want your help or advice BEFORE you offer it.
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Avoid the temptation to rush in and try to resolve a situation as quickly as possible. Conflict isn't always a terrible thing; it can help individuals develop and change.
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Be brief and business-like, when it is called for.
- Remember, you give yourself selflessly to others ALL OF THE TIME - it's not manipulative to ask others for help!
Depicted above:
Sally Field, Larry King, Pope Francis, Jessica Alba, Celine Dion, Woody Harrelson
Mariah Carey, Anne Hathaway, Gal Gadot, Jason Segel, Arianna Grande, Jennifer Garner
Jessica Chastain, Idris Elba, Elton John, Tyra Banks, Barbara Walters, Vin Diesel
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