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INFJ: Visionary Developer: Seeker of the Ideal
Relatable Quotes
"I am indeed a practical dreamer. ... I want to convert my dreams into realities as far as possible."
– Mahatma Gandhi
"As far as we can discern, the sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being."
– Carl Jung
"My chief goal is to find a way to make [what I do] meaningful to other people."
– Daniel Day-Lewis
"[I] project myself into the given circumstances by using my empathic talent ... for understanding how other people express their emotions."
– Edward Norton
"I am an abstract visionary, always looking at things from different perspectives."
– Anon
"I believe that I can 'read' people in just a few minutes, but I have to be careful not to make assumptions."
– Anon
"Helping others open up their minds to find their own purpose in life is very gratifying."
– Anon
"I am a mystery to most people." (And I like it that way)."
– Anon
Recommended Matches
INFP, ENFJ, INFJ, INTJ, ISFJ, ESFJ
A True INFJ
INFJ’s are the least common type in the population – you’re the 1% (literally).
Generally, you’re calming, unassuming, sympathetic and genuinely sincere.
Though you’re one of the most difficult types to get to know, you’re an exceptional observer and counselor and can immediately ‘read’ people you’ve just met. (Just be careful to assume so much).
You, more than any other type, require time to reflect and digest your 'here and now' to be able to move into the future.
You're future-oriented, though you uniquely can easily empathize with the past, present and future.
You channel your insight and inspiration into better understanding yourself and, by extension, human nature. Solitude and the opportunity to focus completely on what matters are most important to you.
You don’t call a lot of attention to yourself; instead, you let your work product reflect your integrity and your inner ideals.
You have a strong love of learning and get along well with teachers and especially older people...you write well because you can formulate your ideas clearly.
You have integrity and are consistently applying your principles in all that you do. You don't like the "politics" at work; you'd rather be able to talk honestly with people than play petty games.
You're quiet yet persistent and determined in your efforts toward long-term goals. When you work toward your vision, you win cooperation rather than demand it...even if you don't lead others, you still facilitate things.
Relationships
You may have an idealistic expectation for how love should be and are frequently disappointed when reality doesn't quite line up. You want to give and receive love and may enter relationships simply to be cared for - even if the other person isn't good for you, and you know it.
When you meet the right person, you are often quick to get involved with them and make it a serious one... you'll end other relationships to be with this "right" one.
You like a traditional "date," revisiting the places where you first met your partner, or doing other symbolic things that help to continue or confirm the existence of the bond.
Recommendations
You should watch out for becoming blinded by the idealism of your visions or focusing only on your ideals. You can maintain a belief or commitment beyond what the facts would support.
When you don't act assertively and are hesitant to "intrude" on people with your ideas, you tend to "lose out." As a result, you may keep too many crucial things to yourself, leading you to believe that your ideas are being overlooked or ignored. Work on gaining political awareness or boldness to advertise your viewpoints.
Depicted above:
Jordan Peterson, Adrien Brody, Tilda Swinton, Cate Blanchett, Michelle Pfeiffer, Louis CK
Gandhi, Al Pacino, Benedict Cumberbatch, Taylor Swift, George Harrison, Noam Chomsky
Daniel Day-Lewis, Sam Harris, Jennifer Connelly, Darren Brown, Marilyn Manson, Edward Norton