ESFJ + ENFP

Here we have an interesting, but not necessarily great match. There is a nice balance of differences and similarities.

Both are high energy and very sociable (ESFJ's are the most sociable of all types).

Both strive for harmony in all aspects of life and express their feelings easily. Love and support for the other is mutual and on all levels.

All of the "shoulds" and "should nots" that the ESFJ adheres to may turn off the ENFP.  The ESFJ is the more practical of the two and will probably take charge of life's mundane tasks (cleaning the home, paying the bills, budgeting) - which could lead to resentment if the ENF(P) doesn't pull its weight in these areas.

If there is a lot of physical appeal, and DupleDyne Harmony is +40, then this one is worth a try.

Positives of an ESFJ-ENFP Relationship:

Shared Extraversion: Both ESFJs and ENFPs are Extraverted, meaning they tend to enjoy socializing and can be energized by spending time with others. This shared trait can contribute to a vibrant, active relationship.

Shared Values: Both ESFJs and ENFPs are Feeling types, so they tend to make decisions based on their values and consider the emotional impact of their actions. This mutual understanding can help them connect on a deeper level.

Balanced Perspectives: ESFJs are Sensing types, focusing on concrete details and practicalities, while ENFPs are Intuitive types, drawn to abstract ideas and possibilities. This contrast can allow them to balance each other out and provide a broader perspective on situations.

Challenges of an ESFJ-ENFP Relationship:

Structure vs Flexibility: ESFJs, as Judging types, value structure and predictability, while ENFPs, as Perceiving types, prefer flexibility and spontaneity. This difference may lead to disagreements about how to manage time and activities.

Emotional Intensity: Both types are capable of deep emotional experiences and can be sensitive. This intensity can lead to heated conflicts if not managed effectively.

Different Focuses: ESFJs may struggle to understand ENFPs' need for exploring abstract concepts and possibilities, and ENFPs may find ESFJs' attention to detail and routine tedious. This can lead to misunderstandings or feelings of not being understood.

In conclusion, an ESFJ-ENFP relationship can offer many positives, like shared extraversion, mutual values, and balanced perspectives. However, they may also face challenges such as disagreements over structure versus flexibility, managing emotional intensity, and differing focuses. With understanding and compromise, these issues can be navigated successfully.