INFP + ISFP

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INFP + ISFP

If both pay attention to their partners' needs, which they are both inherently are apt to do, they can have a truly fantastic physical and emotional connection.

Aside from being adaptable and having similar values, both are creative introverts who care deeply about other people, animals and nature.  Both strive to use their talents to make a positive impact on the world.

Despite their similarities, they do have significant differences. INFP’s are dreamers who think of the world in an abstract, theoretical way, while ISFP’s are doers who prefer action over thinking. INFP’s are highly emotional and spend a lot of time in their own heads, whereas ISFP’s are more logical in nature and have more interaction with whatever is going on around them.

Although the way they perceive the world and interpret information is starkly different, a relationship between an INFP and ISFP can be successful as long as they learn to communicate with one another openly.

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Positives of an INFP-ISFP Relationship:

Shared Feeling Trait: Both INFPs and ISFPs are Feeling types, leading to a deep emotional connection and a harmonious relationship. They make decisions based on their values and the needs of others, which can create a strong sense of empathy between them.

Common Values: Both types often share a love for art, beauty, and creativity, creating a mutual understanding and appreciation for each other's passions and pursuits.

Introverted Nature: As introverts, both INFPs and ISFPs value their alone time and understand each other's need for solitude. This can lead to a relationship where each person's personal space is respected.

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Challenges of an INFP-ISFP Relationship:

Differing Perspectives: INFPs are intuitive and often think about the future and abstract concepts, while ISFPs are sensing and prefer to focus on the here and now. These different perspectives may lead to misunderstandings if not effectively communicated.

Communication Style: INFPs tend to be more expressive and open with their feelings, while ISFPs might keep their feelings more to themselves. This difference can lead to challenges in communication if not addressed.

Planning vs. Spontaneity: INFPs often enjoy thinking about the future and planning ahead, while ISFPs prefer to live in the moment. This could create tension when it comes to making plans or decisions.

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Understanding each other's personality type can help INFP and ISFP partners to leverage their strengths and navigate these potential challenges. As always, communication, understanding, and mutual respect are crucial to a successful relationship. It's important to remember that every individual and relationship is unique and influenced by many factors beyond personality type.

 

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Betty Baker M.A. Psych, M.Ed

About the Author

Betty Baker is an awarded marriage and family therapist and contributor to the internationally renowned PeaceBuilders® Program - a science-based, research-validated violence prevention curriculum and professional development program for children, grades pre-K to 12.

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