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INTP + INFJ

 

All Signs are "Go!"

 This pairing is so compatible that it is often called “the Golden Pair” as they can naturally be themselves around each other. 

INTP’s and INFJ’s both share the same energy levels (introversion) and the same way of perceiving the world (through intuition), but there are enough distinctions to stimulate interest and intrigue.

People who like communicating in patterns, metaphors, and symbols do better with each other than with sensing types who gain information from the world primarily through their five senses.

Both are captivated by the existential and will use their intuition and reasoning to try to comprehend the meaning of life or the purpose of things. There are no questions that either type may have that the other would not be willing to share and examine. Together, these two can explore unlimited possibilities and uncover new discoveries and insights, each propelling the other towards a more comprehensive and holistic perspective.

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Positives of an INTP-INFJ Relationship:

Intellectual Bonding: Both INTP and INFJ enjoy abstract, complex ideas, and they can have intellectual discussions that both find stimulating.

Complementary Strengths: INFJs, with their strong focus on emotional and humanistic elements, can help INTPs to consider the impact of their ideas on people. On the other hand, INTPs, with their logical and analytical nature, can help INFJs to scrutinize their ideas more critically.

Mutual Understanding: Both INFJs and INTPs are introverted and need time alone to recharge. They can understand each other's need for personal space and quiet time.

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Challenges of an INTP-INFJ Relationship:

Emotional Differences: INTPs often struggle with expressing their emotions and may seem distant or indifferent to INFJs who are sensitive and empathetic. This can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

Different Priorities: While INFJs tend to prioritize harmony and cooperation, INTPs are more interested in finding logical solutions. This can cause disagreements and tensions in the relationship.

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Remember that these descriptions might not apply to all INTP-INFJ relationships. Factors like personal growth, life experiences, and maturity also play a significant role in a relationship's success.

Despite their differences, INTPs and INFJs can enjoy a rich and fulfilling relationship. Understanding, acceptance, and effective communication are key to making the most of their relationship. 

 

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Betty Baker M.A. Psych, M.Ed

About the Author

Betty Baker is an awarded marriage and family therapist and contributor to the internationally renowned PeaceBuilders® Program - a science-based, research-validated violence prevention curriculum and professional development program for children, grades pre-K to 12.

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