ISFJ + ESFP

There is lots of potential here for this complementary coupling.  The ESFP is the free spirit, while the ISFJ tends to “hold down the fort”.   Both have SF preferences, giving them a down-to-earth sensitivity to the other’s feelings. 

These types of people “keep it real” in their own ways.  The ISFJ is the one to usually push for decisions to be made and affairs to be in order, while ESFP’s live life to the fullest, (in an immediate sense) and rush to new opportunities.

ESFP’s are the social butterflies, whereas ISFJ’s prefer intimate dinner parties.  Frustrations lie in the (J) and (P) preferences and how much each prefers J & P on the scale.  The J wants things settled and organized (a clean home, a budget to live by, etc.). P's need spontaneity and flexibility and time to assess their thoughts before making a final decision.

Happiness and balance in the relationship can be achieved if both are willing to come halfway between the many needs of J and P dichotomies.