Being understood about the small stuff
Most Virgo Suns have spent a lifetime being told to relax. With another Virgo, nobody says that. Checking the reviews before booking is simply how a vacation gets booked, and when one of them re-folds the towels, the other only asks to see the method. This is a couple who show up on time, split chores with very little fuss and remember which of their friends can’t eat gluten.
There’s often a dry, private humor too. Virgo’s sharp eye turned on the rest of the world is a lot of fun in the car on the way home.
When the eye turns inward
Two people who notice everything will eventually notice each other. Small corrections add up: you loaded that wrong, that’s not quite what you said, you’ve got something on your collar. Neither means it unkindly, and each might read a pile of those as proof of never being quite good enough, a feeling Virgo is often well acquainted with already.
Worry is contagious here as well. One raises a concern about the boiler, the other adds two more, and by midnight you’re both researching insurance. Neither one’s job description includes saying “it’ll be fine.”
A rule for the critics
Try a ratio. For each thing you fix or point out, say two things you noticed that were good, because you did notice them. Plan some things badly on purpose: an unbooked weekend, a meal with no recipe. Letting something stay imperfect in front of each other can be surprisingly intimate.
Sharing a Sun sign says you see the world in similar ways, and little about how you each want to be held. Compare Moon signs, and read about Venus in Virgo if one of you has it, since this pairing can go a long way before anyone says “I love you” in plain words.