No second opinion
The same sign for both lights puts your birth close to a new Moon, which astrologers tend to read as a person pointed one way. In Aries the direction is forward. You decide, you say so, you’re already halfway out the door. There’s no quieter inner voice asking whether this is wise, because the inner voice is also an Aries and it’s holding the car keys.
This makes you unusually honest and hard to discourage. People who’ve spent years talking themselves out of things find you bracing, and a little addictive. You got the band together, you sent the message, you asked the question everyone else was circling.
In love
You fall hard and you make it obvious, which is one of the nicest things that can happen to someone. The trouble tends to arrive later, when a partner has a feeling that doesn’t come with an action attached. “I’m a bit sad today” doesn’t give you anywhere to go, so you may offer a plan, a joke or a change of subject. To you that’s kindness. To them it can feel like being hurried along.
Your own needs can get the same treatment. You may not notice you were hurt until you’ve already picked a fight about the recycling.
The skill worth building
Empathy is a muscle like any other, and yours may simply get less use. Try asking one more question than feels necessary: “Should I help, or just listen?” Then do the one they picked. Your courage isn’t in doubt, and staying put while someone else’s mood runs its course takes plenty of it.