The mismatch
These two signs sit at a right angle, and they want different things. Your Sun is restless, keen to move and unbothered by risk. Your Moon is careful, wants its people close, and remembers exactly what was said. You may think of yourself as the independent one and be a bit embarrassed by how much you need a home base.
There’s real intelligence in the mix, though. You act fast, and you also pick up on how a room feels. You rarely set out to hurt anyone. When you do it’s usually because you were moving quickly and didn’t see them standing there, and you may feel terrible about it afterwards.
Who you fall for
The chase may be what you talk about, but what keeps you is being looked after. Many people with this mix eventually notice that their exciting partner has something of a parent about them: someone who feeds them, worries about them, asks if they got home all right. It’s worth asking which of your patterns came from home, so you can choose the ones you want to keep.
Moods come quickly, and because the Aries side acts on them, you can snap at someone over a hurt you haven’t named yet.
Saying the soft part
The bravest thing you can do here is to lead with the need: “I’d like you to call when you land.” It feels more exposing than any argument, and it works better. You can also build your adventures with a return ticket. Your Moon relaxes when it knows when you’re coming back, and then your Sun gets to go further. The Aries in love page has more on the side people usually see first.