Two ends of one rope
Opposite signs put your birth close to a full Moon, which astrologers often read as a life spent stitching two themes together. Yours are independence and partnership. One side of you wants to go first and doesn’t much care who approves. The other can’t really settle until the people around it are happy.
This makes you the most socially aware of the Aries Suns, and often very good company. You’re direct enough to be interesting and tactful enough to be invited back. Our page on Aries and Libra as a couple describes much the same argument, except you get to have it by yourself.
How it plays in love
You tend to enjoy the flirting years, and you like things light, cordial and stimulating. Heavy feelings can throw you. When a partner brings real gloom or a complicated grief, you may feel awkward and reach for the nearest silver lining, or the nearest exit.
There’s also a swing to watch for. You may give in several times to keep the peace, and then make one big unilateral decision to prove you still can. Your partner sees a nice person who suddenly booked a flight.
Staying in the middle
Say what you want while it’s still small, before the Aries side has to break out. And when someone’s upset, you don’t need to fix it or brighten it. Staying in the room with them, a bit uncomfortable, will often do more than a clever solution. You may find the people you’ve admired for being so sure of themselves are watching you and wishing they could do the other half.