Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon

Leo likes a kingdom with a clear hierarchy. A Sagittarius Moon likes asking why anyone needs a kingdom. You tend to lead people straight out of the box they were in.

Order and open road

This is about as inspiring as a Sun and Moon get. You throw yourself at what’s possible with very little fear. Yet there’s a quiet argument going on. Leo, a fixed sign, likes structures, particularly ones with Leo at the top. Sagittarius questions authority, speaks its mind whatever the cost, and is always looking at the horizon.

In practice this makes you the sort of leader who tells people they could be so much more, then takes them there. Your honesty can get you into trouble, and you’ve likely said something in a meeting that you were told about afterwards.

An exhausting and wonderful person to date

You fall quickly, sometimes at first sight, and your enthusiasm tends to break through other people’s reserve before they’ve finished deciding. You’re lavish with affection and with whatever you happen to own. You want someone who’ll share the big romantic adventure and talk about ideas until late, and who won’t get in the way of your solo expeditions.

You may wear people out, and you may wear yourself out. A constant hunt for excitement can be a way of not feeling ordinary, and being ordinary is something you may fear more than you admit. You also really dislike being told about your faults, so tense talks can get cut short by a joke or an exit.

Staying for the dull part

You want a permanent bond and you want freedom, and both wishes are real. Say that early, and work out specifically what freedom means: trips alone, separate friends, nights out. The more honestly it’s agreed, the less it feels like escape. Then practice staying in the room during a boring or awkward conversation. Someone who’s seen you tired and unremarkable, and still likes you, may be the adventure you weren’t looking for.

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