Good timing and big causes
Sagittarius brings wit, hope and foresight, and Aquarius brings invention and a strong need for freedom. You’ve got a very good sense of timing, and you often know what a group wants to hear before the group does. You don’t need a title to pull people together. Whether you’re making a serious point or a silly one, you tend to get a hearing.
You’re idealistic and outspoken, and you take other people’s rights seriously. You may be happiest when you’re working on something larger than yourself with people who’ve become friends along the way.
One among many
An Aquarius Moon processes feelings by stepping back from them to have a look. In love, this can make you a refreshingly unpossessive partner with no interest in games. It can also mean that someone close to you feels they get the same warm, interested treatment as everybody else. You love them and you love your friends and your cause, and they’d like to know where they rank.
Pressure to define things tends to make you bolt, or at least start talking about how relationship norms were invented. You may need a partner with a full life of their own, who isn’t keeping count of your evenings.
Something only they get
Give your partner something that’s theirs alone: a standing evening, a private joke, a worry you haven’t told the group chat. It doesn’t cost you any freedom, and it answers the question they may be too proud to ask. When a hard feeling arrives, try staying with it a bit before turning it into an interesting idea. It’ll still be interesting later.