Slow, physical and sure
You tend to work out how you feel through your senses. The weight of a hand on your back, a voice you could listen to all evening, the way someone smells: this gets through to you long before a clever line does. You may look hard to read for the first few weeks, and that’s usually because you haven’t decided yet. You aren’t in a rush, and you’re quite willing to wait for the right person.
Your affection is practical. You make the meal, buy the good sheets, remember which pillow they like. You probably care how things look too, and how a person looks after themselves, and you’ve learned not to apologize for that.
Good things and the urge to keep them
A loved thing is something you want to keep, and that instinct can slide from people to possession. If someone you love makes a new friend or a sudden plan, you might feel the ground shift and tighten your grip. Change proposed on the spot often meets a flat no, even when you’d happily agree after a few days.
Try naming the fear (“this feels unsettling”) instead of digging in. Every so often, check whether you’re happy with someone or just used to the arrangement. Comfort can keep you in a place long after you’ve stopped enjoying it.
Dating this placement
Be on time. Pick somewhere with really good bread. Plan a lazy afternoon rather than a packed itinerary, and don’t treat their pace as a lack of interest. A Venus in Taurus feels loved through steady, repeated things: the regular Thursday, a hug that lasts longer than it has to, a promise kept so many times it stops needing a mention. Grand declarations with nothing behind them won’t count for much.