ENFJ + INTP

The INTP and ENFJ relationship can be especially challenging unless both individuals are mature and willing to appreciate their differences. The only commonality between these two personality types is their capacity for imagination, a shared interest in discussing future possibilities, and their passion for the arts (concerts, movies, museums, etc.).

Despite the potential for a strong initial attraction, historically, marriage counselors have observed that opposite types tend to marry and divorce, and then marry the same opposite type again (sometimes leading to another divorce). This suggests that once "bitten" by an opposite type, a person may develop a yearning to "complete" themselves with an opposite type.

However, statistically speaking, it doesn't work out. Committed couples report the highest satisfaction when they are with someone similar to themselves, while those in an opposite-type relationship report the least overall satisfaction with themselves and their relationship. While there are successful opposite-type relationships to be had by those who seek spiritual growth and strength of character, achieving that often means walking a long path of angst, turmoil, and the surrendering or compromise of some of their favorite aspects about themselves.