INTJ + ENFJ

This can be a successful couple if both are willing to accept the other for who they are.

Here we have a (F)eeler and a (T)hinker, an (I)ntrovert and an (E)xtrovert. Even though they both share a common preference for innovation, creativity, organization and completion, the frustrations surrounding this coupling can be great.

Above all, ENFJs are loving, affectionate people who crave emotional connection in their relationships, including plenty of opportunity to discuss their feelings. The INTJ personality is the second-most autonomous and private personality type in the bunch and requires a lot of alone time to think, reflect, etc.

INTJ's are super-logical and are more focused on feeding their intellectual appetites and advancing their careers than validating feelings for their partners. INTJ's treat arguments as stimulating intellectual games, however, ENFJs view these same conflicts as aggressive, unpleasant, and depleting of energy.

ENFJ's are great conversationalists while INTJ's loathe small talk and won't happily engage in conversation unless they find the subject matter personally compelling.  ENFJ’s enjoy weekend adventures while INTJ’s are very happy staying at home and binge-watching Netflix.

Compromise and a willingness to grow are key to the success of this pairing.