ENFJ + ENFJ
Being the same type, in this case, has some big pluses and a few minuses.
Both are "people persons", they strive for harmony and want to help others reach their full potentials. They both share a need for organization and tend to keep their homes neat and attractive. They both agree that work and relationships must complement their deeply held personal values and beliefs. ENFJ and ENFJ both want the same things in life and will both enjoy the others' friends (both being popular, there will be many of them).
The rub lies in the fact that both want to be in charge. Yin and Yang concepts do not apply with this couple. Both are idealists and strive for harmony to the extent that they tend to avoid honest discussions about potentially uncomfortable issues and often have trouble hearing constructive criticism. Sweeping things under the rug may work temporarily, but can eventually undermine the connection they feel for each other.
This match's success really depends upon how much growth the participants want in their relationship. You cannot have much growth if you're married to yourself. Variety is the spice of life, but personal growth is the main course. This match is very do-able, especially if the two aren't 100% ENFJ.
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