ENFJ + ESFJ
This can be a good match if both strive for honest and open communication about sore subjects and the "little things" that arise now and then. Neither type deals effectively with conflict because harmony is so important to them. Both know how sensitive the other is to criticism and don't want to bruise the other's ego as well. Unresolved tensions will brew and become bigger than they actually are without honest, slow and attentive communication.
Both require organization and routine and both depend on their mates for their support - and both readily give it. ENFJ's can truly provide ESFJ's with the love and appreciation they crave.
The main point of contention between these two is that ESFJ's tend to be old-fashioned and thrive on stability and simplicity while ENFJ's thrive with change and exploring the unknown and complex. Communication styles are completely different as well. ENFJ's prefer to speak in metaphors and analogies while ESFJ's speak in literal terms. Over time, these differences can become unbearable. If there are not constant efforts to understand and appreciate what the other is trying to communicate, this relationship will not last.
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