ENFJ + INFJ

ENFJ + INFJ

 

Despite some challenges, an ENFJ and INFJ pairing has potential for a deeply satisfying and meaningful relationship, rooted in empathy, mutual respect, and shared values.

Both INFJs and ENFJs are intuitive, feeling, and judging personalities. They share a strong desire to understand and help others, and they both communicate their thoughts and feelings openly. However, the ENFJ's extroverted nature can sometimes clash with the INFJ's need for solitude.

ENFJs are socially-oriented, always striving to inspire and encourage others. They enjoy being the center of attention and are energized by their interactions with people. On the other hand, INFJs are more introspective and prefer quiet environments. They require personal space to reflect and recharge.

However, the shared "NF" in their personality types indicates a shared vision of the world, making them naturally understand and empathize with each other. These shared values can form the bedrock of a deep emotional connection.

Positives of an ENFJ-INFJ Relationship:

Mutual Understanding: Both ENFJs and INFJs intuitively understand each other's need for meaningful relationships and the search for deeper understanding of the world around them.

Shared Values: Both ENFJs and INFJs hold strong values and seek to make a positive impact on the world, providing a strong foundation for their relationship.

Balanced Social Interaction: ENFJs can help INFJs to interact more with the outside world, while INFJs can help ENFJs appreciate the value of solitude and reflection.

Challenges of an ENFJ-INFJ Relationship:

Need for Solitude: INFJs need plenty of alone time to recharge, which can conflict with ENFJs' need for social interaction.

High Expectations: Both types have a tendency to set very high expectations, for themselves and for others, which can lead to disappointment and frustration.

The success of an ENFJ-INFJ relationship depends on their ability to appreciate their differences and communicate openly. With understanding, patience, and compromise, this pairing can offer a harmonious blend of companionship, shared values, and mutual respect.

Betty Baker M.A. Psych, M.Ed

About the Author

Betty Baker is an awarded marriage and family therapist and contributor to the internationally renowned PeaceBuilders® Program - a science-based, research-validated violence prevention curriculum and professional development program for children, grades pre-K to 12.

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