ENFJ + INFP
ENFJ's and INFP's share the same iNtuitive-Feeling (NF) temperament. NF people generally share a deeper-than-most mutual desire for close, emotional connections. Both in this pairing have a desire to explore their spiritual identities and apply their creativity to all areas of their lives.
INFP's appear to be very calm - and they are - whereas the ENFJ takes a leadership role, identifying problems quickly and working towards sound resolutions.
ENFJ's are more logical, while INFP's see logic as something that is "optional". It should be noted that this difference is their biggest hurdle and would, in all likelihood, become the main problem in such a coupling.
ENFJ's have the Judging archetype that needs a tidy home while INFP doesn't care as much about appearances as they do about being comfortable - INFJ's have a tendency to be pack rats as well. INFP's are more focused on processes than end results and feel that ENFJ's are entirely too concerned with final appearances. Because of this, ENFJ's end up doing the brunt of what they feel should be done (cleaning, organizing bills, etc.) and grow resentful. The more ENFJ's do, the more INFP's back away from the daily chores. ENFJ's set a high bar and if the INFP doesn't do his/her share of the mundane daily tasks, not only will the ENFJ feel responsible for everything, but will feel alone and unappreciated.
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