ENFJ + INFP

INFP and ENFJ partnerships offer a balanced blend of introspective creativity and extroverted nurturing. While the INFP's introverted nature appreciates the ENFJ's warm and friendly energy, both share an intuitive and emotional approach to life.

The INFP's flexibility complements the ENFJ's decisiveness, creating a dynamic interplay between open-ended exploration and purposeful action. The INFP brings creative insights, while the ENFJ provides practical guidance, creating a supportive relationship that encourages individual and shared growth.

ENFJ's and INFP's share the same iNtuitive-Feeling (NF) temperament.  NF people generally share a deeper-than-most mutual desire for close, emotional connections.  Both in this pairing have a desire to explore their spiritual identities and apply their creativity to all areas of their lives.

INFP's appear to be very calm - and they are - whereas the ENFJ takes a leadership role, identifying problems quickly and working towards sound resolutions. 

ENFJ's are more logical, while INFP's see logic as something that is "optional".  It should be noted that this difference is their biggest hurdle and would, in all likelihood, become the main problem in such a coupling.

ENFJ's have the Judging preference that needs a tidy home while INFP doesn't care as much about appearances as they do about being comfortable.

INFP's are more focused on processes than end results and feel that ENFJ's are entirely too concerned with final appearances.  Because of this, ENFJ's might end up doing the brunt of what they feel should be done (cleaning, organizing bills, etc.) and grow resentful.  The more ENFJ's do, the more INFP's back away from the daily chores.  ENFJ's set a high bar and if the INFP doesn't do his/her share of the mundane daily tasks, not only will the ENFJ feel responsible for everything, but will feel alone and unappreciated.

Positives of an INFP-ENFJ Relationship:

Shared Values: Both INFPs and ENFJs prioritize values and deeply-held beliefs. This mutual understanding can create a profound emotional bond between them.

Balance of Energy: The extroverted nature of the ENFJ can complement the introverted nature of the INFP. This can result in a good balance of social activities and quiet time.

Strong Emotional Support: Both types are feeling-oriented and tend to be understanding and supportive. This leads to a relationship where emotional needs are acknowledged and respected.

Challenges of an INFP-ENFJ Relationship:

Potential for Overwhelm: ENFJs tend to be energetic and social, which might overwhelm the more reserved INFPs at times.

Avoidance of Conflict: Both types tend to avoid conflict and may suppress their negative feelings to maintain harmony, which can lead to unresolved issues over time.

Different Processing Styles: ENFJs are more decisive and quick to act, while INFPs tend to ponder things more deeply before making decisions. This could lead to frustration if not properly managed.

To make a relationship between an INFP and an ENFJ work, both parties will need to communicate openly, understand each other's needs and preferences, and be willing to compromise when necessary. Remember, all individuals and relationships are unique, and personality type is just one factor among many that influence a relationship.