Last and Middle

an icon of a person in lotus position denoting romantic harmony between a Middle Born and Last Born child

Middle + Last



Middles and Lasts generally get along with everyone, and a harmonious relationship between the two is very likely.  They're a great match because Middles Borns aim to please and will support the Last Born’s desires to pursue their dreams.

They communicate well because the Middle doesn't feel threatened by the Last, and consistent communication is the Last’s natural mode.  The Last Born, being more adventurous, will bring fun into the relationship. Last Borns do need to guard against making their mate the brunt of their jokes. The Last also needs to share the limelight now and then as the Middle has had enough of being left out of it.




a photo of Author Betty Baker

Betty Baker M.A. Psych, M.Ed

About the Author

Betty Baker is an awarded marriage and family therapist and contributor to the internationally renowned PeaceBuilders® Program - a science-based, research-validated violence prevention curriculum and professional development program for children, grades pre-K to 12.