ESTP + ENFJ
These two are nearly total opposites - sharing only one of the four type preferences.
Historically, marriage counselors see opposite types marry and divorce and interestingly find the same opposite type to marry again (and sometimes divorce again). Once "bitten" by an opposite, a person seems to develop a yearning to "complete" one's self with an opposite type.
Statistically, it doesn't work out. Committed couples report the highest satisfaction when with those similar to themselves - while those in an opposite-type relationship report the least overall satisfaction with their individual selves and as a couple.
There are successful opposite-type relationships to be had by those who seek spiritual growth and strength of character, but achieving that often means walking a long path of angst, turmoil, and the surrendering or compromise of some of their favorite aspects about their individual selves.
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