The Seventh House is the house of partnership. Referred to as the marriage box by some astrologers, this house concerns itself with one-on-one dynamics; romantic, business, and even adversarial couplings fall within its proverbial walls. Those with natal planets in the Seventh House tend to be very focused on relationships, gravitating towards partnership in all areas of life.
Uranus represents progressive thinking, inventions, shocking events that come out of the blue (like lightning), and anything strange or out of place.
If your Uranus is in the 7th House, your partnerships are unique or unusual, usually possessing a wonderful rapport or a total lack of understanding. You and/or your partner are generally unconventional, and you do things for their shock appeal. Plenty of freedom is desired in the relationship, and there may be a lack of desire for commitment. In fact, maybe you search out special situations in your relationships that ensure little commitment. Perhaps you are most attracted to those who are already in relationships or who are otherwise "unavailable".
Because of the uniqueness that exists within your partnerships, it is likely that others will not understand them. You may not understand them yourself. Compared to most others, you meet the most interesting and unconventional people in your life.
Any need to control the other person in your relationship will probably lead to disaster. You and your partner will have to find your own comfort level regarding time and attention spent on the other. A lot of elbow room may be required. A relationship in which you feel you are free to grow is one that makes it possible for you to do so. Any limits or constraints placed on the relationship are likely to be met with a certain "hit the road" attitude. Sudden and unexpected turns are likely. Perhaps one person is required to be away from the other for long periods of time. This position may give many long distance, "casual" types of relationships.
You probably seek a partner who provides the thrills and spills for you in your life. A partner who challenges you mentally and emotionally is desired. Your relationships may be lab experiments where you hope to learn who-knows-what. Someone who is inventive, individualistic, creative, original, outgoing, eccentric, or radical appeals to you. Your partner may possess considerable personal magnetism and occasionally a degree of genius, but eccentricities, erratic tendencies, and even fanaticism may be present.
Your approach to marriage may be highly idealistic or utopian, and there may be an inclination to favor platonic unions. You want and need your partner to be your friend. Most of your relationships probably started as friendships. On the other hand, there may be a tendency to seek excitement in partnerships, and a marked interest in romantic adventures may result in passing infatuations that can cause a rift with the marriage partner.
The greatest threat to marriage may occur when one partner's capacity for self-development expands at a rate greatly in excess of the other's, so that one spouse may no longer be recognizable as the person they were when the marriage took place.
For a successful partnership, you and your partner will need to develop the qualities of tolerance, cooperation, detachment, and freedom.
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Ben Baker, CEO About the Author Ben has practiced Astrology for over 35 years and is a certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist (CBT) Practitioner. Ben holds 11 patents for the core functions that all dating sites now use today. See Ben's Bio for more info. |
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