ENFJ + ESTP
These two are nearly total opposites - sharing only one of the four type preferences.
Historically, marriage counselors see opposite types marry and divorce and interestingly find the same opposite type to marry again (and sometimes divorce-again). Once "bitten" by an opposite, a person seems to develop a yearning to "complete" one's self with an opposite type.
Statistically, it doesn't work out. Committed couples report the highest satisfaction when with those similar to themselves - while those in an opposite-type relationship report the least overall satisfaction with their individual selves and as a couple.
There are successful opposite-type relationships to be had by those who seek spiritual growth and strength of character, but achieving that often means walking a long path of angst, turmoil, and the surrendering or compromise of some of their favorite aspects about their individual selves.
Comments